When I say high-value, I am speaking of character; not money or any other tangible assets. I understand that not everyone is a Christian. Not everyone even desires a high-quality man. This is not a post to guarantee someone a partner or a spouse, but is advice to increase the likelihood of success in attracting the right person.

This post is to encourage like-minded singles who are fellow believers in Jesus Christ and are living with kingdom purpose. It is for those singles who aim to glorify and honor God in all aspects, including in their relationships.

Tips for attracting the right person.

• Honor God’s preeminence; He is King. Keep God first.

• Surrender in every area of life to Jesus Christ.

• Know that no person, place, thing or idea can fill your God void. The greatest need is being in right fellowship with God.

• Know your worth.

• Value and respect yourself.

• Know that God alone validates you; not a person, place, or thing.

• Be the same type of high quality person that you desire to attract.

• Set holy standards and don’t compromise on your morals.

• Set healthy, reasonable, and safe boundaries.

• Love God above all, and love your neighbor as yourself.

Helpful related Bible verses:

“Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.This is the first and great commandment.

And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.”

Matthew 22: 37-40.

“House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, and a prudent wife is from the Lord.”
Proverbs 19: 14.

“Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.”
Proverbs 31: 10

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.”
Proverbs 31: 30