For people who are single and desire marriage, it is always important to remember that there are still decent people who would make an ideal spouse. Not everyone means you or me harm. I could never fairly and truthfully say that all men are no good. No one can ever truthfully or fairly say that all women are no good. It’s simply not true. Every individual must be selective.The key is to learn to recognize […]
With Christmas and the birth of our Savior Jesus Christ recently celebrated by many, I want to talk about another righteous man who was near and dear to our Savior. Based on Biblical account, He was an excellent husband to his wife Mary, the mother of Jesus. When I read the story of Mary and Joseph, I am blessed and impressed! Joseph was indeed a true example of godly masculinity. I believe that Mary and […]
We are all commanded to love our neighbors as ourselves. We don’t have to wait for others to love us in general, before we show Christ-like love. What I am speaking of is love in a romantic relationship. Sometimes, a woman may get ahead of her man in love. Certainly, it may not be popular, but I believe the right way is to allow the man to lead in love. Above all, his actions over […]
The reality is that every day is day of Thanksgiving. I know that there is a calendar day that is set aside annually for a day of Thanksgiving. I’m grateful for that. My immediate family and I live a bit of a distance from each other. We have many longer distant relatives scattered throughout different states. This is a time of year when especially my immediate family makes sure we gather together to reconnect, have […]
Victims are not to blame for being victimized. Never. However, it is important for men and women to use wisdom and set boundaries in their relationships. Are you a woman who is in a relationship? Do you know your worth? How are you being treated? Are you being treated with: • Honor • Respect • Love • Kindness • Gentleness • Selfless consideration • Faithfulness? If you are not being treated well, what are you […]
In this post, I am going to talk about what most accurately defines a man. First of all, men and women are valuable, simply because they are created human beings. Both the male and female were created in the image of God (Genesis 5: 1-2). Regardless of the secular perspective, a man’s worth has nothing to do with his bank account, his assets, or his public reputation. In the eyes of society, a man’s corporate […]
A secure husband does not interfere with his wife being who God created her to be. A secure wife also will not interfere with her husband in this way either. It is a common scenario that some women get married and their husbands suffer from some kind of insecurity when it comes to their career successes or spiritual giftings. Specifically, a godly husband will not hinder his wife’s God-given talents, gifts, and contributions. However, pride […]
In this post, I am going to talk about some things that the church tends to be hush-hush about. First of all, God created sex. It is not wrong to talk about sex. God created sex to be kept within the boundaries that He has set. When people go outside of God’s boundaries, then there is a problem. I highlight certain issues, not for the sake of gender wars. It is the opposite. I desire […]
Let’s talk about the times we live in, and some of the women of today in America. I am not talking about all women, and I am not talking about godly women. I am not speaking of the lovely and strong, loving, hard-working mothers and other women out there. What I am referring to are the cold, hardened, violent women of today. Among these women are mothers who kill their children. The frequency at which […]
In this post, I am going to address un-wed potential mothers. I care a lot about the plights of women. I desire to see women make the best, most wise and enjoyable decisions. Also, this post is not about married men who rightfully desire children with their wives. Some men desire to have children for the right reasons, and under the right circumstances. They provide wonderfully for their family, which is great. There are also […]