Misogyny among women is quite common. I observe this first-hand. Some of the most misogynistic people out there are actually women. Needless to say, this is very harmful in women’s quest for respect and fair treatment. Even among professed Christians, some women have been conditioned to have disdain for and harshly critique women. Some have also been conditioned to feel less than men, so they have a problem not only with themselves as women, but […]
What are people chasing? What or who are they yearning for? Why the restlessness? Why the feelings of hopelessness for so many? Why do some people feel that no matter what they do, it is never enough? Why do so many women idolize love, men, and marriage? Why do some men chase sex or obsess over money and power? Why do so many people seek escape and look for distraction through varying and sometimes destructive […]
Specifically, the kingdom man who knows his worth has some special qualities. He is a different type than the average man. When a man knows his worth, he: • Understands that society’s idea of a man’s worth is skewed. He understands that having integrity is what is important. Character makes the man. • Won’t have so much to prove. • Has real confidence; he is not cocky. • Is not insecure; at least not in […]
How Fear, Identity Confusion, And Role Reversals Affect Dating and Marriage Part 2
In continuation, some men and women have to a degree, lost senses of their identities and the understanding of their roles. Of course, not all men and all women are in this sad state of confusion. However, some don’t seem to really know who they are, or how to conduct themselves anymore. In fact, many of these people are the same ones who insist that there is basically no gender distinction in roles. I’m not […]
How Fear, Identity Confusion, And Role Reversals Affect Dating And Marriage Part 1.
In this post, I have some issues to address concerning gender, roles, and the current condition of society, as it pertains to relationships. Men and women are of equal value and worth in the sight of God. However, men and women are different. This is not news, right? Maybe it’s not news to some more than to others. In this post, I will acknowledge God-given differences between men and women, and the roles they were […]
Women continue to lose by giving away their power to men. A man naturally would become what he needs to become if a woman would require him to do so. Some women will not require a man to measure up before they sleep with him, date him, or marry him. Women give their power to men out of desperation, ignorance, and low self-esteem typically. These women often are not living right themselves when it comes […]
As I look at the mess society has become, I recognize a root problem of it all. I see major dysunction close to me. Painfully close. One in a leadership position is belittling, gaslighting, and controlling another. The recipient is somewhat gullible and is getting confused and messed up in the head, believing the emotional and spiritual abuse. A skewed understanding of God’s word according to this abusive leader is rubbing off on the recipient. […]
Sometimes, there is opposition to a relationship from outsiders. Even on the occasions where there is a healthy relationship between a man and a woman, hate can come from the friends or family of one or both partners. Haters will hate. It is very important for a couple to guard their relationship. For whatever reason, some are in opposition to the union of a couple. I think it is well known that some women are […]
10 Ways To Be A High Value (Kingdom) Woman Who Attracts A High Value (Kingdom) Man
When I say high-value, I am speaking of character; not money or any other tangible assets. I understand that not everyone is a Christian. Not everyone even desires a high-quality man. This is not a post to guarantee someone a partner or a spouse, but is advice to increase the likelihood of success in attracting the right person. This post is to encourage like-minded singles who are fellow believers in Jesus Christ and are living […]
This post is not an attack against anyone. We live in a broken world with broken people who need healing. We all hurt in some kind of way. We all need healing. Healing can and does happen for many. Thank God! Yet, we live in a dangerous world with some dangerous people. It is very important that we live in awareness and practice caution. That is the point of this post. I want to encourage […]