This is a be on the lookout, cautionary post. This is one of those under- acknowledged topics. I am bringing attention to it, because it is a dangerous world out there. Some women are not living in awareness. This can cause them to miss major red flags. Red flags should be caught early on, if possible, and appropriate actions should be taken accordingly. Due to my observations and experiences, I am more careful now. A […]
I am going to talk about what it means to be a woman. It is well understood by many that women have been mistreated, used, abused, and oppressed throughout history. Eventually, things began to come full circle. Women have sought true justice, pursuing their God-given human rights and statuses as image bearers of God. Unfortunately, some women have also gone the extreme route and are now esteeming themselves as “goddesses” and superior to men. They […]
In this post I’m going to discuss what it means to be feminine in a godly way. I am aware that not everybody is a believer and follower of Jesus Christ. As a Christian, I understand that there is only one way for things to get better for humanity. The only way is to do things God’s way. We live in an age of people calling wrong right and right wrong, radical feminism, misogyny, gender […]
I don’t have enough room to list every single blessing I am grateful for. However, here is a short list: • I am thankful to be a daughter of God. • I am thankful for God’s word, His grace, love, mercy, forgiveness and goodness to all. • I am thankful to be alive and well. • I am thankful for all family and friends. • I am thankful for food, clothing, shelter, employment, and transportation. […]
Are the best men for relationships tall, dark and handsome with bulging muscles, good game, and popular with the ladies? How about shorter, blond, light eyes, lots of money and charm? While those characteristics are not necessarily wrong, they are superficial traits. They fall under the category of preferences; not standards. Moral standards are far more important than personal preferences. I have learned to be much more concerned about a man’s character than superficial traits […]
I am going to talk about God’s purpose for authority. A lot of people are obsessed with power. Some have their own definition for it, and misuse it. Along with that comes various types of abuse. The problem is that people have gotten away from the true source of power. Why do people have authority? Who do they get it from? What is the real purpose for power or authority? Self-importance? To control others? To […]
Hearing wedding bells? It is a no-brainer, right? How can you marry someone you don’t trust? The truth is, some women seem to come under some kind of spell when in love with their men. They are not able to think clearly. In these situations, a woman may take a big gamble. Sometimes, she enters into a situation or marriage that she actually knows better than to enter into. Sometimes, a woman becomes careless and […]
In this post, I address what has resulted from the fact that many women don’t know their worth or the influence that they have on men’s behavior. This simply kind advice. I don’t dictate to women what to do, but seek to encourage women to take back what is rightfully theirs. Many women have given up their power, freedom, and peace by not holding men accountable and because they don’t know their worth. The current […]
PRIDE
There is a rampant problem called Pride. Pride… – Is Entitled – Leads to rebellion. – Despises responsibility and accountability. – Elevates self. – Cannot admit wrong. – Usually does not say I am sorry. – Is profoundly stubborn. – Is insensitive to others; hypersensitive about self. – Leads to denial. – Is defensive, deflecting, blames others. – Does not care about the pain of others. – Is unwilling to make positive change. – Will […]
In my posts, am I just being negative? To me, the answer to this is a no-brainer, in that reality is not always warm and fuzzy. It is not about me being negative. There are major problems in the world that are surrounded by too much silence. For example, many women, including myself, have been greatly affected by gender bias, spiritual and other types of abuse. This is quite common, even in this 21st century […]