There are many perks to being a woman. Living righteously adds even more joy to our lives! However, sometimes, the things we think and do are not righteous, and can cause unnecessary pain and stress in our lives. Here are some joy stealers to avoid: 1) Having idols- Whether it be the idol of happiness, having a man in our life, or coveting other people, places, things and situations. For Christians, God is our source […]
Ladies, Stop The Hate, And Let’s Love One Another!
Women should love one another; not treat each other as opponents. Some women have contempt for other women. Some women will go to bed with another woman’s man. One dirty trick is for a woman to “befriend” a woman to get close to her man and see how far she can get with him. There is often gossiping, petty competition, backstabbing, rivalry and more. These issues transcend age. For some reason, this problem is one […]
A man who does not fear God will not do right and cannot truly live with godly purpose. Best believe. “By mercy and truth iniquity is purged: and by the fear of the LORD men depart from evil.” Proverbs 16: 6. By the fear of the Lord men depart from evil. A man who does not fear God can be fully aware of the God given call on him to live a righteous life, and he feels […]
Why do some women seem to be captivated by words? How is it that so many women seem to be more persuaded by especially men’s words, in spite of any contradicting actions? At times, I have also been one of those women who believed too much of what I was told. I am not perfect, and have made my share of mistakes. I am still learning more and more the importance of relying on the […]
The Importance Of Listening More, Talking Less Early In A Relationship
Ladies, many of us are gifted with-well, the gift of gab! Generally, many women use lots of words. There are situations where it is better to be slow to speak, be reserved in how much we say, and be an attentive listener. Plenty people are very flexible and accommodating. They learn how to adapt in different situations to obtain what they want in life. Plenty people are good actors. They can play pretty much any […]
Why do many women believe they can change a man? Why not go for the kind of men they desire in the first place, instead of settling for someone different, then hoping and dreaming of changing him? Some women put themselves out to be burned over and over again. This can lead to bitterness. One thing I want to make sure I am free of is unforgiveness. If I am unforgiving, it is a heavy […]
Some men desire and pursue healthy relationships and will make wonderful spouses for some women one day! These men are harder to come by, but even when they are available and pursue women, some may not be interested. Some women are going with the men who are not the best choices. Sometimes, the reason for a woman’s choice in a man is based on her personal preferences taking priority over moral standards. I have questioned myself […]
I am bringing attention to this, because it is a common, dangerous theme among many women. Anyone can fall into this trap. Some women are ruled by idolatry of men. Much of what these women do, and how they think is driven by their obsessions with men and relationships. Understand that these kind of women are dangerous women. A woman is a danger to herself, and also to those who are connected to her in […]
Some people may believe it is old fashioned, but God is unchanging. I understand some facts about how God wired men and women. I see how in the animal kingdom, the male pursues the female, who responds some kind of way. God also put it in a man to desire to pursue a woman. I believe this is the natural order and the way He intends it to be; not a woman pursuing a man. […]
Godly Headship Is Love, Responsibility, And Provision Part 2
“Wives submit to your husbands! Wives submit! Obey your husbands!” I heard that a lot in various sermons preachd by different men. I am in agreement with wives submitting to their husbands. However, I understand that it does not stop at “Wives submit.” When I read Ephesians chapter 5, I see the complete picture; not just “wives submit.” Studying the word of God showed me that some of the teachings I heard were very unbalanced. […]