I have addressed the fact that I have heard false, women-denigrating teachings in Spiritual Abuse Shaped Me and God’s Holy Word Healed Me. I have heard false teachings by different preachers. In this post, I will talk about the teachings of one preacher in particular. I believe his teachings have been the most damaging. I was influenced by this religious leader who taught hurtful, false, doctrine. I believed him as a young girl and also […]
Marriage? Staying Single? Live With Kingdom Purpose, Regardless
Women have a crucial role to play, married or unmarried. Despite the fact that social conditioning, combined with natural wiring influences many women to (sometimes obsessively) pursue relationships and love, marriage on earth is not the end all. I would love to see more and more women take a leading role in making lasting, positive impact, and contributing to much needed change in the world we live in, regardless of relationship or marital status. For […]
When a man truly loves a woman, he will show it in how he gives her his time and effort. He will show his love in how he treats her in a loyal and loving way. He will also be consistent. The woman on the receiving end of his love will not have to play a guessing game. The proof of his love will be in his behaviors more so than in his words. Other […]
To all the single ladies: Please do not affirm a man’s bad behavior. Men should not affirm women’s bad behavior either. Women have often played a major role in the dysfunctionality of their men throughout history. Why? Because women are helpers, supporters, enablers. Women are either helping men to be good or helping them to be bad. Women either affirm men or they don’t. In fact, the way women are wired by God, we have a […]
Free will is a beautiful thing! Thank God for it. It can be used either for good or for bad. Life is about choices to be made. Everyone has choices and makes choices. There are consequences for every choice we make. I would love to see women taking more of the right kind of control over their lives. I want to see women taking better care of themselves. Much of women’s pain and suffering in […]
Looking Into Nature, Women Can Learn Valuable Lessons About Relationships
When I observe God’s vast creation, I never cease to be amazed. There is still so much about the creation that I do not know about or understand. The small portion that I have been able to observe is mind-blowing. I have also observed patterns and behaviors of certain animals in contrast to the patterns and behaviors of people in some regards. One thing I have taken note of is the behavior of female animals […]
There are many perks to being a woman. Living righteously adds even more joy to our lives! However, sometimes, the things we think and do are not righteous, and can cause unnecessary pain and stress in our lives. Here are some joy stealers to avoid: 1) Having idols Whether it be the idol of happiness, having a man in our life, or coveting other people, places, things and situations. For Christians, God is our source […]
Ladies, Stop The Hate, And Let’s Love One Another!
Women should love one another; not treat each other as opponents. Some women have contempt for other women. Some women will go to bed with another woman’s man. One dirty trick is for a woman to “befriend” a woman to get close to her man and see how far she can get with him. There is often gossiping, petty competition, backstabbing, rivalry and more. These issues transcend age. For some reason, this problem is one […]
A man who does not fear God will not do right and cannot truly live with godly purpose. Best believe it. “By mercy and truth iniquity is purged: and by the fear of the LORD men depart from evil.” Proverbs 16: 6 KJV. By the fear of the Lord men depart from evil. A man who does not fear God can be fully aware of the God given call on him to live a righteous life, and […]
Why do some women seem to be captivated by words? How is it that so many women seem to be more persuaded by especially men’s words, in spite of any contradicting actions? At times, I have also been one of those women who believed too much of what I was told. I am not perfect, and have made my share of mistakes. I am still learning more and more the importance of relying on the […]