I stopped fantasizing about love, relationships and marriage in my twenties and developed a more realistic approach. The reason for this is because God helped me better see HIS purpose in me and in marriage. Marriage has nothing to do with the fairy tales and romance novels that often drive girls and women into relentless pursuits of romantic love with (often the wrong) men. I realize God wanted my attention, my reverence, my worship in...
Hi friends! I decided to write this post because I see it being weaponized against women that that there is a window of time for women to have children. There are insinuations that women decline in worth and value once past their “fertile” years before age 30. Especially, some “conservative” religious men are harsh and cruel, calling women who are childless and single “bitter cat ladies.” I wrote this post to encourage every single woman...
I am thankful to God for empowering followers of Jesus to stay the course. I’m so grateful for men and women, boys and girls who serve Christ, no matter the consequences. I also want to encourage the ladies specifically when it comes to going against the grain, including in the most difficult ways, in order to follow Jesus. Righteous feminine influence is paramout in this dark world. Cheers to all the ladies who are not...
It’s a dangerous world. There are dangerous people. If you are afraid of someone, should you stay away from them? The answer sounds obvious. Yes! Yet, sometimes it’s not so simple. I have been in situations in my past where men made me nervous, gave me dangerous vibes right from the get-go and I proceeded with them anyway. I never let it get very far because I am a very cautious person and as it...
Especially, refuse to be a forever girlfriend if you want to be married. Have you ever met women who desire to get married but remain men’s girlfriends chronically, because their boyfriends won’t marry them? How about women who truly desired marriage but changed their stances on it when their men said, “Marriage is just a piece of paper?” Ever met a lady who was willing to play house and give husband benefits outside of marriage...
Some of these safety and dating tips are common sense. Sometimes, some women can be so excited to have interaction with men, they forget to be careful. We live in a dangerous world. There are decent people out there, but there are dangerous people as well. I find that no matter what, there are women who live carefree/carelessly in their interactions with men. Sometimes, these are men they don’t even know well. In addition, a...
In this post, I’m going to talk about religious “conversion” that takes place when someone changes or attempts to change their religious belief system in order to date or marry someone else. In fact, some of you wonderful readers may be going through something like this-you are interested in someone, but your values don’t align when it comes to your faith in God. The person you are seeing may have already indicated they are interested...
It is well known across the world, throughout various cultures that men are obligated to provide for their families. Women often talk about desiring husbands who are providers. This is a good desire because it is Biblical. What does providing mean? So often, people refer to provision in the sense of material and financial provision primarily. Those are important aspects of provision, but they are not the only or most important ones. I think that...
There are many important reasons to discuss this topic from a biblical perspective. We live in a hypersexual society. But what is the best kind of sex? Well, morally, the best sex is sex between a husband and his wife as God intended. How do I know this? Because God’s ways are always best. Not to mention the heartbreak and STDs, as well as many other issues that arise because many people are not married...
Why are we here? How should we be living? Living with purpose is very important. God created you and I for specific purposes, friends. That is special! The Holy Bible is the blueprint for how Christians should be living. Specifically as women, how should we not be living, if we are followers of Jesus Christ? In this post, I will discuss five things that God didn’t create women for, but many women are often struggling,...