Many girls and women have been left unprepared to face life- especially, in regard to relationships. For whatever reasons, they commonly have been left largely uninformed by their elders; by those who love them, and could have been properly equipping them with knowledge. So many girls and women go through life misguided about relationships, due to lack of knowledge and unpreparedness. It is necessary for parents to model the right examples for their children. Children...
The principle is the same for men and women. Whether a man or woman, it is very wise to choose a partner based on integrity. To all you beautiful single ladies, my message to you today is choose integrity! Always choose the right character in a man over personal q, such as: Height Handsomeness Muscular physique Any superficial traits Swag Bank account size Prominent presence or status in a community or institution Title, position, labels...
It is sad that some women feel that their bodies are being shamed by conservatives and other people in general. We live in an age of “liberation” where there is an almost anything goes mentality. In the past, many women dressed classy, looked attractive and elegant, all while keeping their clothes on. I don’t know how many, if any, felt ashamed of their bodies for covering themselves up. I understand times have changed. Now, when...
“No big deal…He’s a guy.” “I can… I’m a guy!” “What do you expect?! He’s a guy!” Have you ever heard that or something similar? Chances are, you have heard it or something similar numerous times. When certain types of unacceptable behaviors have been done by men or boys, this is often the explanation or justification: “I’m a guy… ““Oh it’s all right, he’s just a guy…”“Boys will be boys!” If you are anything like...
To sum it up briefly, people feel inferior because others have caused them to feel inferior. Feelings of inferiority are learned. I have felt secondary and less than in my past. This did not come naturally to me, but was based on how others treated me. That is, until I realized the way I was being made to feel was a lie. From my own experiences and based on what I have observed, there are...
For the woman who wants to do what is pleasing to God and marry a like-minded man, these are very important issues to discuss and be in agreement on…before marriage. Surprisingly, some people do not discuss and agree on some very important issues that should be agreed upon before marriage. They run into problems because of this after they are married. It is very wise to discuss things like fundamental values / principles and other...
In this post, I am going to share with you some facts about my attire. I will discuss how I dress and reasons why. How I dress is not only a matter of personal preference, but also a matter of personal conviction. Where the word of God doesn’t lay out a direct command on a particular matter specifically, I use Christ-centered, biblical principles as my guide. I pray for guidance as well. This post is...
Are women responsible for how men behave? If you attend certain churches, that is the message being preached. Many people are eating up that message. Do I blame women for men’s behavior? The answer is a resounding no. Yet, some of the ladies are offended. They seem to believe that they are helpless puppets in a dangerous and cruel relationship game. Some desire false reassurances. Some don’t want to hear that they are in control...
Specifically, the kingdom man who knows his worth has some special qualities. He is a different type than the average man. When a man knows his worth, he: • Understands that society’s idea of a man’s worth is skewed. He understands that having integrity is what is important. Character makes the man. • Won’t have so much to prove. • Has real confidence; he is not cocky. • Is not insecure; at least not in...
In this post, I have some issues to address concerning gender, roles, and the current condition of society, as it pertains to relationships. Men and women are of equal value and worth in the sight of God. However, men and women are different. This is not news, right? Maybe it’s not news to some more than to others. In this post, I will acknowledge God-given differences between men and women, and the roles they were...