Hearing wedding bells? It is a no-brainer, right? How can you marry someone you don’t trust? The truth is, some women seem to come under some kind of spell when in love with their men. They are not able to think clearly. In these situations, a woman may take a big gamble. Sometimes, she enters into a situation or marriage that she actually knows better than to enter into. Sometimes, a woman becomes careless and...
In this post, I address what has resulted from the fact that many women don’t know their worth or the influence that they have on men’s behavior. This simply kind advice. I don’t dictate to women what to do, but seek to encourage women to take back what is rightfully theirs. Many women have given up their power, freedom, and peace by not holding men accountable and because they don’t know their worth. The current...
There is a rampant problem called Pride. Pride… – Is Entitled – Leads to rebellion. – Despises responsibility and accountability. – Elevates self. – Cannot admit wrong. – Usually does not say I am sorry. – Is profoundly stubborn. – Is insensitive to others; hypersensitive about self. – Leads to denial. – Is defensive, deflecting, blames others. – Does not care about the pain of others. – Is unwilling to make positive change. – Will...
By now, it is probably evident that I am not a fan of seeing all the problems many women go through. In particular, I hate to see what many go through in their relationships and marriages. The woman of God must be armed with God’s truth at all times. This is applicable before and during marriage. We are always dealing with seed being sown, whether spiritually or in the natural. Words are seed. Our mind...
In this post I’m going to share some of the ways that I pray for myself and ( Lord willing) my future as a wife. 1) Pray that I remain steadfast in loving God with all of my heart, soul, mind, and strength, and loving my neighbor as myself. 2) Pray I continue to grow in the grace and knowledge of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 3) Pray for the spirit of continuous discernment. 4)...
When a man truly loves a woman, he will show it in how he gives her his time and effort. He will show his love in how he treats her in a loyal and loving way. He will also be consistent. The woman on the receiving end of his love will not have to play a guessing game. The proof of his love will be in his behaviors more so than in his words. Other...
To all the single ladies: Please do not affirm a man’s bad behavior. Men should not affirm women’s bad behavior either. Women have often played a major role in the dysfunctionality of their men throughout history. Why? Because women are helpers, supporters, enablers. Women are either helping men to be good or helping them to be bad. Women either affirm men or they don’t. In fact, the way women are wired by God, we have a...
Free will is a beautiful thing! Thank God for it. It can be used either for good or for bad. Life is about choices to be made. Everyone has choices and makes choices. There are consequences for every choice we make. I would love to see women taking more of the right kind of control over their lives. I want to see women taking better care of themselves. Much of women’s pain and suffering in...
Women should love one another; not treat each other as opponents. Some women have contempt for other women. Some women will go to bed with another woman’s man. One dirty trick is for a woman to “befriend” a woman to get close to her man and see how far she can get with him. There is often gossiping, petty competition, backstabbing, rivalry and more. These issues transcend age. For some reason, this problem is one...
A man who does not fear God will not do right and cannot truly live with godly purpose. Best believe it. “By mercy and truth iniquity is purged: and by the fear of the LORD men depart from evil.” Proverbs 16: 6 KJV. By the fear of the Lord men depart from evil. A man who does not fear God can be fully aware of the God given call on him to live a righteous life, and...