Impacting Righteously

Seven Ways To Have a Happy and Healthy Relationship

What one tolerates or doesn’t tolerate in a relationship is certainly up to that particular individual. Everyone has negotiables and non-negotiables. There are some issues I frequently see that are contributing to many women’s unhappiness. I believe that due to double standards, sexism and other reasons, many women have had a tendency to be overly tolerant to mistreatment in relationships.Some of you know how much I emphasize the importance of a woman holding her man...

Stop Settling for Pain and Misery. Choose Love!

There are still people out there who show love, kindness and generosity to others. Their light seems more and more bright as the rest of the world becomes darker. We live in a world where plenty others operate out of hatred. This post will address what I am seeing around me- increasing hate against women inside and outside of the churches. For this reason, dating and relationships are more difficult than ever. Especially, for women....

12 Ways To Positively Influence A Man

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Choosing a Partner Wisely but Realistically.

No one is ready made. When someone meets the right person, that person will be flawed just like anybody else. They won’t be perfect, but are the perfect person for the one they are suited for. Healthy relationships consist of imperfect, compatible people who happen to love and respect each other. Typically, they will be attracted to each other and have a significant amount of things in common. Shared faith / core values are very...

A Primary Reason He Doesn’t Need a Wife.

This message is not for everyone, except those who can receive it. I say this because I do not try to force my beliefs on people who do not believe the way I do. I truly respect the fact that not everybody is a Christian. Still, this post is not only for women who profess to be Christians, but also is general advice and pointers for ladies of any belief and value system who are...

Avoiding The Spirit of Offense.

I admit I am offended some of the time. If it is not one stressful person or situation, then it is another that has me concerned. Although I may feel offended at any time, I do not want to develop a default state of being offended. There are odd and bad vibes I get from some people. Spiritual warfare is all around. Both family and friends are involved in the discord. There are times I...

Remaining Unchangeable IN Changing Times

The world we live in is changing every day. People’s thoughts, opinions and value systems can change similarly to the weather. As we know, the weather is rather inconsistent. Every day there are changes in the weather. When it comes to changes people make, change is good when it is positive change in the right direction. One day one person may believe this. The next day they may believe that. Perhaps, it depends on what...

How A Woman’s Value Changes After Age 30

Rumors, popular opinion and misunderstandings have at times been propagated and used against targeted individuals. Some of the misunderstandings are about fertility. Some people believe a woman’s value is directly related to her fertility. A large percentage of people have desired to have and have had at least one biological child. The desire and ability to procreate goes back to the beginning of time. “So, God created man in his own image, in the image...

Is It Worse When Women Cheat?

This is what some people say. Is it true? This post is inspired by a recent discussion I was involved in on this topic. Based on what factors does one come to the conclusion that women are worse for cheating than men are? A long time justification for this belief has been that when women have sex, they become attached; they catch feelings. Men, they say, are often only doing it for the sex; no...

10 Things A Wise And Noble Woman Does Not Do

Quality of life is affected by all the decisions one makes, whether the decisions are in matters great or small. Though imperfect, a woman of integrity will prioritize doing what is right. The prudent woman will avoid many pitfalls as she navigates through life. In this post is a list of wrong things that some women do. The list is good for me to remember for myself, even. These behaviors should be avoided by all...