This post is to give encouragement to make decisions that will not only be pleasing to God, but will make life less stressful and less complicated. I see the pain, I see the hurt. I have witnessed the heartache, stress and how hard life can be when consequences come for decisions made. I understand that not everybody is a follower of Jesus Christ. I speak based on my own belief in God and His ways....
For the sake of clarity, there are plenty of women who do not value men. As a woman who does not teach men, I talk to the ladies about many issues I see disproportionately affecting women and girls. This does not mean I do not care about the plights of men. I hope that mature, spiritually sound men are talking to the boys and young men. As some of you know, I address issues that...
As I observe relationships around me and the experiences of some women in their relationships, I realize that probably the majority of women’s major problems come from their romantic relationships. Many women have been willing to suffer a great deal. Some women are willing to compromise their values and joy in order to keep a man around. Some have foundational beliefs that they are willing to compromise and participate in behaviors that they would not...
Some girls and women are zealous for a relationship and want to be in love with a man. There’s nothing wrong with this necessarily. However, it is important to keep one’s heart guarded at all times. Some women have a chronic crush on a man. They would like to be with him and may continue to nurture the idea of being with him for a long time, even when he has shown them that he...
The purpose of this post is to point out a harmful double standard inside and outside of the church. It happens outside of the church, but it is worse when it is happening in the house of the Lord. It is concerning that it is happening in some Christian households. Some parents have been protecting their own daughter (s) from toxic men. At the same time, some have not properly trained their own son (s)...
Is it true that Apostle Paul instructs women to never teach other women anything else besides Titus 2: 3-5? Well, I have observed that there are “fundamentalist” religious people, their wives and other women of the same mindset telling women that when it comes to women teaching them, they should only be taught Titus 2: 3-5 by women. They supposedly should learn everything else in the entire Bible from men only. One woman even claimed...
In this day and age, some people have opted out of what is healthy and traditional. Some people don’t believe in monogamy or marriage at this point. This is sad. It is destructive to society. It is certainly an individual’s decision whether or not they will marry and there is not necessarily anything wrong with them remaining single. However, when the reason that someone does not want to get married is because they are non-committal...
In this post, I won’t be discussing God-given, natural sexual desire that a husband and wife feel toward each other. Instead, I am referring to the spirit of lust. I’m referring to extreme, unnatural and insatiable sexual appetite. I’m speaking of perversion. If someone has this problem or if they know of these problems in a potential spouse, these are huge red flags. It is important to recognize that this is a major red flag before proceeding...
There are many people leaving Christianity. Many are sighting abuse as their justification. As I observe, plenty people in the world seem to be more angry at Christians than ever. In order not to give up, one must remain truly anchored in Christ. The behavior of those around us who profess to be Christians but are abusive or dishonest is not a reason for me to reject God. People who falsely portray God have helped...