I frequently am accused by certain men of being a feminist. At this point, I think that feminist means different things to different people. If a feminist is a woman who expects women to have all of their God-given rights and expects women to be seen and treated as equally valuable and important, so be it. If feminist means anything that goes against God’s design and His will, then no. I am not a feminist....
I firmly encourage you to please stop emasculating men, if this is what you are doing. Whatever women lack in physical strength, some make up for with sharp tongues, which they use to hurt others. Although verbal abuse is not deadly in that it is not physical abuse and cannot cause bodily harm, it is still very harmful. 1.) Some women make it a point to publicly embarrass their men. Instead of taking their men...
I write a lot to warn, inform and encourage women against misogynistic attitudes and controlling, abusive behaviors. Though these behaviors and attitudes have been a problem for many generationally, women’s responses have not always been right either. For example, radical feminism is an extreme response. Sometimes, some women go too far and become extreme, calling behaviors controlling or tyrannical when they aren’t. I am seeing some ladies resistant to their men’s benevolent actions and calling...
Love is…everything. God is love. He sent His Son Jesus as Savior, to die to pay the penalty for our sins. This is the ultimate sacrifice- to give one’s life for the sake of others. There is no greater love. I encourage myself as well as other women to influence others righteously. One way to do this is to love others. Many people are still looking for love and marriage. Many ladies are very bothered...
This post is to inform girls and women in ways that I was not informed. It is to encourage them in ways that I was not encouraged. It is to warn them in ways I was not warned. Everyone has insecurities of some sort. For some people, their insecurities are a lot more debilitating. Some women are finding out about the dangers of relationships with their men primarily through their individual experiences. Some people are...
Amidst the gender wars, there are some men calling out and rebuking gentlemen who love and respect women, accusing them of being “simps.” Some men really seem to hate women to the point where they don’t even want to see women treated well. This shouldn’t have to be said, but a man doing these things is not simping: • A man advocating for women who are on the receiving end of injustices, such as the...
Yes. A woman’s approval and affirmation of her man is incentive for him. Did you ever notice that plenty men who desire women generally avoid behaviors that they believe repulse women and push women away from them? Men who want to be with women generally act in manners they believe will attract and keep women. Or at least, some behave in ways, doing just enough right not to repel women. In other words, plenty will...
In keeping with my theme of godly femininity and impacting others righteously, in this post, I am calling out something about certain (not all) black women. This is because what is right is right, and what is wrong is wrong, regardless of anything else. It doesn’t matter if we are the same gender or if we have similar skin tones. I don’t take sides, based on superficial traits. I want to do what is right...
Godly submission will always be relevant. Why? Because it is God’s design. God’s ways and God’s will transcend time. It doesn’t matter that it’s 2023. For people who follow Jesus Christ, it is important for everyone to submit to God. Godly submission of wives to husbands is not simply something for the 1950s, the 1800s or a concept that is only discussed in the Bible and left there. I am writing this post, because in...
This post is inspired by recent conversations I have had with some men about their expectations for women, and their disappointment in how women are not meeting those expectations. These conversations on social media platforms and in “real life” helped give me a little more insight into part of the reason why the dating scene is difficult for many. For single sisters in Christ who encounter religious men who hold these beliefs, it should be...
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