Quality of life is affected by all the decisions one makes, whether the decisions are in matters great or small. Though imperfect, a woman of integrity will prioritize doing what is right. The prudent woman will avoid many pitfalls as she navigates through life. In this post is a list of wrong things that some women do. The list is good for me to remember for myself, even. These behaviors should be avoided by all...
This post is to give encouragement to make decisions that will not only be pleasing to God, but will make life less stressful and less complicated. I see the pain, I see the hurt. I have witnessed the heartache, stress and how hard life can be when consequences come for decisions made. I understand that not everybody is a follower of Jesus Christ. I speak based on my own belief in God and His ways....
For the sake of clarity, there are plenty of women who do not value men. As a woman who does not teach men, I talk to the ladies about many issues I see disproportionately affecting women and girls. This does not mean I do not care about the plights of men. I hope that mature, spiritually sound men are talking to the boys and young men. As some of you know, I address issues that...
As I observe relationships around me and the experiences of some women in their relationships, I realize that probably the majority of women’s major problems come from their romantic relationships. Many women have been willing to suffer a great deal. Some women are willing to compromise their values and joy in order to keep a man around. Some have foundational beliefs that they are willing to compromise and participate in behaviors that they would not...
The purpose of this post is to point out a harmful double standard inside and outside of the church. It happens outside of the church, but it is worse when it is happening in the house of the Lord. It is concerning that it is happening in some Christian households. Some parents have been protecting their own daughter (s) from toxic men. At the same time, some have not properly trained their own son (s)...
Is it true that Apostle Paul instructs women to never teach other women anything else besides Titus 2: 3-5? Well, I have observed that there are “fundamentalist” religious people, their wives and other women of the same mindset telling women that when it comes to women teaching them, they should only be taught Titus 2: 3-5 by women. Women supposedly should learn everything else in the entire Bible from men only. One woman even claimed...
In this day and age, some people have opted out of what is healthy and traditional. Some people don’t believe in monogamy or marriage at this point. This is sad. It is destructive to society. It is certainly an individual’s decision whether or not they will marry and there is not necessarily anything wrong with them remaining single. However, when the reason that someone does not want to get married is because they are non-committal...
There are many people leaving Christianity. Many are sighting abuse as their justification. As I observe, plenty people in the world seem to be more angry at Christians than ever. In order not to give up, one must remain truly anchored in Christ. The behavior of those around us who profess to be Christians but are abusive or dishonest is not a reason for me to reject God. People who falsely portray God have helped...
First of all, there are many black people doing the right things and making a positive differences in their communities, as well as in society in general. This is wonderful to see. I thank God for it. This post is not to offend anybody, but it is to address major problems instead of deflecting and running from these problems. This post is about accountability and the need for healing in black communities. A major problem...
Hello friends! In this post are a few friendly reminders about staying safe today and at all times. We live in increasingly dangerous times. Precautions, along with prayer are more necessary than ever. People are being victimized in all sorts of predicaments. Road rage is a growing problem. In many areas, gun violence is increasing. Ladies are being stalked, harassed, groped, randomly attacked, and sometimes snatched right off the streets, even in broad daylight. Some...