No one will ever be a perfect earthly parent. There are parents who do their best, but their children do not fully reflect it. God was a perfect parent to Adam and Eve and they still disobeyed and failed in the Garden of Eden. This post is not about singling out anyone’s personal parenting techniques. My goal is to address the overall importance of fathers and some consequences of their absences. I think good fathers...
This is what some people say. Is it true? This post is inspired by a recent discussion I was involved in on this topic. Based on what factors does one come to the conclusion that women are worse for cheating than men are? A long time justification for this belief has been that when women have sex, they become attached; they catch feelings. Men, they say, are often only doing it for the sex; no...
Men are not the standard for women to measure themselves according to. I am only comparing women to men, because women have often been made to feel inferior when compared to men. This is why I say women are equally as important and valuable as men. Yes, men and women are very different, but equally valuable. Maybe you are thinking, Tell us something we don’t already know! This post is inspired by something that was...
Why do many women believe they can change a man? Why not go for the kind of men they desire in the first place, instead of settling for someone different, then hoping and dreaming of changing him? Some women put themselves out to be burned over and over again. This can lead to bitterness. One thing I want to make sure I am free of is unforgiveness. If I am unforgiving, it is a heavy...
First, I acknowledge that there will always be exceptions. I write about the culture in which we live, where boys are typically conditioned one way, and girls another way. Obviously, these types of situations do not apply to everyone. Rather, these are “norms” in our culture. I write based on my personal observation and experiences. However, there is research done that coincides with what I have observed. Here are some differences in the way boys...
I was quite messed up spiritually in my younger years. False doctrine and spiritual abuse, detrimental ideology, wrong conditioning, ignorance, and the hypocrisy that plagues society has significantly and uniquely affected many women. In fact, I am one of those women. One reason spiritual abuse is so damaging is that it tends to completely distort someone’s understanding of who they are, and who God really is. This can cause someone to feel inferior and alienated...