No one is ready made. When someone meets the right person, that person will be flawed just like anybody else. They won’t be perfect, but are the perfect person for the one they are suited for. Healthy relationships consist of imperfect, compatible people who happen to love and respect each other. Typically, they will be attracted to each other and have a significant amount of things in common. Shared faith / core values are very...
Quality of life is affected by all the decisions one makes, whether the decisions are in matters great or small. Though imperfect, a woman of integrity will prioritize doing what is right. The prudent woman will avoid many pitfalls as she navigates through life. In this post is a list of wrong things that some women do. The list is good for me to remember for myself, even. These behaviors should be avoided by all...
Hello friends! In this post are a few friendly reminders about staying safe today and at all times. We live in increasingly dangerous times. Precautions, along with prayer are more necessary than ever. People are being victimized in all sorts of predicaments. Road rage is a growing problem. In many areas, gun violence is increasing. Ladies are being stalked, harassed, groped, randomly attacked, and sometimes snatched right off the streets, even in broad daylight. Some...
Due to both natural desire and social conditioning, some of us ladies can get a little carried away and overzealous when it comes to getting into a relationship. This applies to some of the men as well. I have learned the importance of taking my time and living in prayerful awareness. It is very important to know as much as possible about the person before becoming involved with them. Early on and later, information may...
Hearing wedding bells? It is a no-brainer, right? How can you marry someone you don’t trust? The truth is, some women seem to come under some kind of spell when in love with their men. They are not able to think clearly. In these situations, a woman may take a big gamble. Sometimes, she enters into a situation or marriage that she actually knows better than to enter into. Sometimes, a woman becomes careless and...
By now, it is probably evident that I am not a fan of seeing all the problems many women go through. In particular, I hate to see what many go through in their relationships and marriages. The woman of God must be armed with God’s truth at all times. This is applicable before and during marriage. We are always dealing with seed being sown, whether spiritually or in the natural. Words are seed. Our mind...
To all the single ladies: Please do not affirm a man’s bad behavior. Men should not affirm women’s bad behavior either. Women have often played a major role in the dysfunctionality of their men throughout history. Why? Because women are helpers, supporters, enablers. Women are either helping men to be good or helping them to be bad. Women either affirm men or they don’t. In fact, the way women are wired by God, we have a...
Why do some women seem to be captivated by words? How is it that so many women seem to be more persuaded by especially men’s words, in spite of any contradicting actions? At times, I have also been one of those women who believed too much of what I was told. I am not perfect, and have made my share of mistakes. I am still learning more and more the importance of relying on the...
Women have had real problems since the fall of mankind in the garden of Eden, when both Adam and Eve were removed from the garden. As women, we do play pivotal roles in our own plights. Thankfully, women do not have to suffer so much. In many cases, it is optional. Symbolically speaking, as it pertains to how women have related to men throughout time, some women have run zealously into the mouths of angry,...