Are women responsible for how men behave? If you attend certain churches, that is the message being preached. Many people are eating up that message. Do I blame women for men’s behavior? The answer is a resounding no. Yet, some of the ladies are offended. They seem to believe that they are helpless puppets in a dangerous and cruel relationship game. Some desire false reassurances. Some don’t want to hear that they are in control […]
Misogynist Women
Misogyny among women is quite common. I observe this first-hand. Some of the most misogynistic people out there are actually women. Needless to say, this is very harmful in women’s quest for respect and fair treatment. Even among professed Christians, some women have been conditioned to have disdain for and harshly critique women. Some have also been conditioned to feel less than men, so they have a problem not only with themselves as women, but […]
What are people chasing? What or who are they yearning for? Why the restlessness? Why the feelings of hopelessness for so many? Why do some people feel that no matter what they do, it is never enough? Why do so many women idolize love, men, and marriage? Why do some men chase sex or obsess over money and power? Why do so many people seek escape and look for distraction through varying and sometimes destructive […]
Specifically, the kingdom man who knows his worth has some special qualities. He is a different type than the average man. When a man knows his worth he usually has these qualities: • Understands that society’s idea of a man’s worth is skewed. He understands that having integrity is what is important. Character makes the man. • Won’t have so much to prove. • Has real confidence; he is not cocky. • Is not insecure; […]
How Fear, Identity Confusion, And Role Reversals Affect Dating and Marriage Part 2
In continuation, some men and women have to a degree, lost senses of their identities and the understanding of their roles. Of course, not all men and all women are in this sad state of confusion. However, some don’t seem to really know who they are, or how to conduct themselves anymore. In fact, many of these people are the same ones who insist that there is basically no gender distinction in roles. I’m not […]