Are the best men for relationships tall, dark and handsome with bulging muscles, good game, and popular with the ladies? How about shorter, blond, light eyes, lots of money and charm? While those characteristics are not necessarily wrong, they are superficial traits. They fall under the category of preferences; not standards. Moral standards are far more important than personal preferences. I have learned to be much more concerned about a man’s character than superficial traits […]
I am going to talk about God’s purpose for authority. A lot of people are obsessed with power. Some have their own definition for it, and misuse it. Along with that comes various types of abuse. The problem is that people have gotten away from the true source of authentic power- God. Why do people have authority? Who do they get it from? What is the real purpose for power or authority? Self-importance? To control […]
Hearing wedding bells? It is a no-brainer, right? How can you marry someone you don’t trust? The truth is, some women seem to come under some kind of spell when in love with their men. They are not able to think clearly. In these situations, a woman may take a big gamble. Sometimes, she enters into a situation or marriage that she actually knows better than to enter into. Sometimes, a woman becomes careless and […]
In this post, I address what has resulted from the fact that many women don’t know their worth or the influence that they have on men’s behaviors. This is simply kind advice. I don’t dictate to women what to do, but seek to encourage women to take back what is rightfully theirs. Many women have given up their power, freedom, and peace by not holding men accountable and because they don’t know their worth. The […]
PRIDE
There is a rampant problem called Pride. Pride… – Is Entitled – Leads to rebellion. – Despises responsibility and accountability. – Elevates self. – Cannot admit wrong. – Usually does not say I am sorry. – Is profoundly stubborn. – Is insensitive to others; hypersensitive about self. – Leads to denial. – Is defensive, deflecting, blames others. – Does not care about the pain of others. – Is unwilling to make positive change. – Will […]