It’s a dangerous world. There are dangerous people. If you are afraid of someone, should you stay away from them? The answer sounds obvious. Yes! Yet, sometimes it’s not so simple. I have been in situations in my past where men made me nervous, gave me dangerous vibes right from the get-go and I proceeded with them anyway. I never let it get very far because I am a very cautious person and as it...
Especially, refuse to be a forever girlfriend if you want to be married. Have you ever met women who desire to get married but remain men’s girlfriends chronically, because their boyfriends won’t marry them? How about women who truly desired marriage but changed their stances on it when their men said, “Marriage is just a piece of paper?” Ever met a lady who was willing to play house and give husband benefits outside of marriage...
Some of these safety and dating tips are common sense. Sometimes, some women can be so excited to have interaction with men, they forget to be careful. We live in a dangerous world. There are decent people out there, but there are dangerous people as well. I find that no matter what, there are women who live carefree/carelessly in their interactions with men. Sometimes, these are men they don’t even know well. In addition, a...
These are ten reasons why women should maintain proper standards and reasonable expectations and boundaries. There is a heavy price to pay to settle for less in love, relationships and life. Here are major consequences of being with the wrong man: • Destruction of mental, physical, spiritual and all-around well-being. • The chance of being his beard: He is on the downlow; is sexually involved with men secretly. But his lady is his cover so...
In this post, I’m going to talk about religious “conversion” that takes place when someone changes, or attempts to change their religious belief system in order to date or marry someone else. In fact, some of you wonderful readers may be going through something like this-you are interested in someone, but your values don’t align when it comes to your faith in God. The person you are seeing may have already indicated they are interested...
It is well known across the world, throughout various cultures that men are obligated to provide for their families. Women often talk about desiring husbands who are providers. This is a good desire because it is Biblical. What does “providing” mean? So often, people refer to provision in the sense of material and financial provision primarily. Those are important aspects of provision, but they are not the only or most important ways to provide. I...
In my previous post, I talked about how some people idolize sex. It is much easier to connect physically in sexual acts with someone than it is to actually love someone. To truly love someone takes sacrificial actions. The two great commandments from God, found in the Bible are based on loving God and loving others; not on having sex. Yet, in our society and other places around the world, sex has become an idol...
There are many important reasons to discuss this topic from a biblical perspective. We live in a hypersexual society. But what is the best kind of sex? Well, morally, the best sex is sex between a husband and his wife as God intended. How do I know this? Because God’s ways are always best. Not to mention the heartbreak and STDs, as well as many other issues that arise because many people are not married...
This post is a reminder to encourage dating women that you don’t have to work so hard in your relationships. Men are not children that are to be raised by their women. We understand this in theory, but sometimes, it’s difficult for some women to apply this reality in their relationships. Some women are exhausted and frustrated from working so hard on their men as their personal projects. “I’m a ride or die chic!” some...
This is an important message. Some women use our nurturing instincts to try to fix and heal men who have not allowed Jesus to heal them. These types of men can be very dangerous. Ladies, if a man does not love himself, he simply cannot and will not love you. This is important to understand. Show me a man that mistreats women and is hateful toward women. You have shown me a man who hates...
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