• Ever have someone whisper about you behind your back? • Did the rumors about you spread like wildfire and people’s attitudes and behavior toward you inexplicably changed in a negative way? • Has anyone ever suddenly begun to acted strangely toward you to your face for unknown reasons? • Has anyone purposefully excluded you? • Has anyone picked verbal or physical altercations with you? • Has anyone slandered and or sabotaged you on purpose?...
This is a be on the lookout, cautionary post. This is one of those under- acknowledged topics. I am bringing attention to it, because it is a dangerous world out there. Some women are not living in awareness. This can cause them to miss major red flags. Red flags should be caught early in relationships with men if possible, and appropriate actions should be taken accordingly. Due to my observations and experiences, I am more...
Are the best men for relationships tall, dark and handsome with bulging muscles, good game, and popular with the ladies? How about shorter, blond, light eyes, lots of money and charm? While those characteristics are not necessarily wrong, they are superficial traits. They fall under the category of preferences; not standards. Moral standards are far more important than personal preferences. I have learned to be much more concerned about a man’s character than superficial traits […]
Hearing wedding bells? It is a no-brainer, right? How can you marry someone you don’t trust? The truth is, some women seem to come under some kind of spell when in love with their men. They are not able to think clearly. In these situations, a woman may take a big gamble. Sometimes, she enters into a situation or marriage that she actually knows better than to enter into. Sometimes, a woman becomes careless and...
In this post, I address what has resulted from the fact that many women don’t know their worth or the influence that they have on men’s behaviors. This is simply kind advice. I don’t dictate to women what to do, but seek to encourage women to take back what is rightfully theirs. Many women have given up their power, freedom, and peace by not holding men accountable and because they don’t know their worth. The...
There is a rampant problem called Pride. Pride… – Is Entitled – Leads to rebellion. – Despises responsibility and accountability. – Elevates self. – Cannot admit wrong. – Usually does not say I am sorry. – Is profoundly stubborn. – Is insensitive to others; hypersensitive about self. – Leads to denial. – Is defensive, deflecting, blames others. – Does not care about the pain of others. – Is unwilling to make positive change. – Will...
By now, it is probably evident that I am not a fan of seeing all the problems many women go through. In particular, I hate to see what many go through in their relationships and marriages. The woman of God must be armed with God’s truth at all times. This is applicable before and during marriage. We are always dealing with seed being sown, whether spiritually or in the natural. Words are seed. Our mind...
In this post I’m going to share some of the ways that I pray for myself and ( Lord willing) my future as a wife. 1) Pray that I remain steadfast in loving God with all of my heart, soul, mind, and strength, and loving my neighbor as myself. 2) Pray I continue to grow in the grace and knowledge of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 3) Pray for the spirit of continuous discernment. 4)...
When a man truly loves a woman, he will show it in how he gives her his time and effort. He will show his love in how he treats her in a loyal and loving way. He will also be consistent. The woman on the receiving end of his love will not have to play a guessing game. The proof of his love will be in his behaviors more so than in his words. Other...
To all the single ladies: PLEASE do not affirm men’s bad behaviors. Men should not affirm women’s bad behaviors either. Women have often played a major role in the dysfunctionality of their men throughout history. Why? Because women are helpers, supporters, enablers. Women are either helping men to be good or helping them to be bad. Women either affirm men in their behaviors or they don’t. In fact, the way women are wired by God, we...
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