The types of women who are known as “pick me” women are contributing to the deficit of men who are marriage material or even ideal for a serious relationship. I have witnessed these types of women numerous times. I believe “pick me” syndrome is a form of self-hatred and a form of idolatry- idolatry of men. It is important to note that pick me women are not those who simply hold themselves and other women […]
I agree with a woman whose stance is that it is her body, so it is her choice. However, I agree with an unpopular context of what many women are saying. Our bodies…our choices. Our bodies are up to us to steward, but belong to God ultimately. Yes, God gave us free will. It is best and most helpful to use this free will wisely and safely. He gave us the ability to make decisions […]
Today’s post is about being proactive in helping sons to relate in a healthy way to women. I’m not a parent, but I have observed enough to see that certain problems some men deal with are sometimes not sufficiently dealt with proactively by parents while they are boys. There are unhealthy attitudes, ideas and practices that are huge parts of cultures globally. It is the responsibility of parents and other responsible mentors to train children […]
In this post, I will talk about the importance of grace. Grace is meant to be given, as well as recived. Life is hard. The ongoing struggle against sin is real. People often disappoint each other. When I’m speaking out against sin Car , I don’t write to berate people, or because I have a personal problem with them. In a world where ideas, beliefs, and behaviors are increasingly sinful, I point to truth and […]
Why Modesty Works
Tired of cat calls, objectification, being leered at and disrespected? Many women complain that they are objectified by some men. They complain about the cat calls, men leering at them, men following them, looking at their body parts, instead of their faces. I get it. It’s disrespectful to them and it’s demeaning to them. Women are not in control of what others do or say. I understand why it’s disturbing to these women. Yet, I […]