How many of you ladies have or had fathers, uncles, or brothers address many of the topics I cover with you, including on dangers of insecure men who idolize power, lack integrity, feel inadequate and powerless? These are men who aren’t submitted to Jesus. What about the fact that some men have unforgiveness and demonic influences inside of them influencing them to hate women? It’s not rare. Do they, or did they tell you how […]
The world is increasingly dangerous and domestic violence incidences- some ending in fatalities- are increasing. This is all because people refuse to obey the two great commandments from God- to truly love God and to love others. It can be easier to not be disciplined, to not love, and live righteous lives or to take out frustrations and anger on other people than to be considerate, kind and not operate out of anger. But easier...
One of the primary reasons a woman cannot leave a man who is not good to her or good for her is because she is having sex with him or has had sex with him. Yes, it is a real thing. She has super-bonded herself to him through sex. Sex is not the only reason, but it is a primary reason some women find it very difficult to leave men when they should. There are...
When a man wants and loves the woman he deems right for himself, he will clearly show her this. If he doesn’t ladies, you really don’t have to try so hard to get a man to see your worth. A man who is not working to get to know you and prove he is worth your while is not for you. There are many women who like men who don’t like them back, because these...
As women, we can be tempted to believe we can fix men. But that’s God’s job. How can a man love you when he cannot receive love from heavenly Father God? How can anyone give love when they have not received love? They have not received love to give away love. You cannot give away what you don’t have. This goes for men and women. There is something in some women that causes them to idolize […]
One of the best traits anyone can have?…drumroll… This is emotional intelligence because it is needed across the board. A lot of problems stem from lack of emotional intelligence. Problems stem from lack of integrity in general. But some people do not have emotional intelligence to help them cope with and manage issues in life. According to Merriam Webster dictionary, this is emotional intelligence: ” the ability to recognize, understand, and deal skillfully with one’s...
Globally, lots of women seem to believe that it’s more important what men have than who they are. This way of thinking has driven many women to make very poor and dangerous relationship decisions. Some women focus on men’s material possessions, titles, positions and social statuses mostly. This focus is understandable to an extent. Everyone knows that men are to provide. Part of provision means material provision. It means earning money in order to earn...
I stopped fantasizing about love, relationships and marriage in my twenties and developed a more realistic approach and mindset. The reason for this is because God helped me better see HIS purpose in me and in marriage. Marriage has nothing to do with the fairy tales and romance novels that often drive girls and women into relentless pursuits of romantic love with (often the wrong) men. I realized God wanted my attention, my reverence, my...
Is it possible that men and women can get out of the natural order in relationships and still have successful relationships and marriages? People are free to do as they please, obviously. But the purpose of this post-like the purpose of my other posts- is to present life situations based on God’s word and His design. Yes, the woman’s job is to reciprocate, to respond to a man’s initiative when it comes to relationships. It...
I noticed two things: some people are denying that there is a fake, false form of masculinity that does not reflect the masculinity that Jesus Christ demonstrated. Secondly, other people are demonizing masculinity overall. The most common scenario I have noticed is people seeming to pretend that there is no such thing as toxic masculinity. Perhaps they are bothered by the terminology? Would they like to call it something else?Wrong masculinity? Bad masculinity? Faux masculinity?...
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