These are ten reasons why women hould maintain proper standards and reasonable expectations and boundaries. There is a heavy price to pay to settle for less in love, relationships and life. Here are major consequences of being with the wrong man:

• Destruction of mental, physical, spiritual and all-around well-being.

• The chance of being his beard-he is on the downlow; is sexually involved with men secretly. But his lady is his cover so that he can appear to be conventional, heterosexual. This is not uncommon.

• Possibly having children with him and the children suffering through chaos, dysfunction and eventual separation or divorce.

• It’s likely he will cheat, potentially exposing his lady to diseases and infections, betraying her in one of the most severe ways.

• Feeling lonely, even in the relationship or marriage because Mr. Wrong is emotionally unavailable because of bad social conditioning and failure to heal and mature.

• Burnout. A lady may have burnout because her man stresses her out so much in general.

• Marriage leading to divorce.

• Becoming a pornography widow. There are women whose husbands choose porn over them.

• Spiritual, emotional, physical and other types of abuse.

• Being abandoned, left as single mother, broken-hearted.

There are more problems that can arise from being with the wrong person that I did not mention here.

I listed some of the most common problems that I see. This post is a reminder friends, to wait patiently on the Lord. To pray, be discerning and intentional about having a healthy relationship and marriage. This goes for men and women. God is a great guide and protector!

Helpful Bible Verses:

This also comes from the Lord of hosts,
Who is wonderful in counsel and excellent in guidance. Isaiah 28: 29 NKJV

I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go;
I will guide you with My eye. Psalms 32: 8 NKJV